Friday, January 23, 2009

How To Be A Secret Admirer

Girls like secret admirers. They're mysterious, romantic, and fun to figure out. If you want to spill to the girl you like, but you don't want to tell her all in one go, then sent her notes, present and messages, anonymously.

DOs:
  • It's called a secret admirer, so make sure you don't let ANYONE know
  • Send her secret messages. E.G. anonymous emails, to her house, hand delivered, in her locker
  • Send her gifts. E.G. Roses on Valentines day, small gifts for no reason at all
  • Be poetic. In your messages that is. You don't have to actually WRITE a poem though. Just be creative, think from your heart
  • If being poetic isn't for you, try using quotes instead. Find quotes that express your feelings, but in someone else's words
  • Sign off anonymously. Otherwise she'd think it was just from a friend.
  • Address it directly to her. Otherwise she'd think it was for someone else.
  • Make sure your messages are legible.
DON'Ts:
  • Go to far. This may be considered as stalker-ish, or creepy
  • Leave any clues. Dust your trail well, leave behind NOTHING
  • Be long winded in your messages
  • Don't be cliched either.
  • Get caught
  • Continue for too long. You have one month max. You can't keep sending her messages and gift forever. Know, when you start out, that you will have to tell her eventually. Give yourself a set date, and make yourself tell her when the day comes.
  • Don't keep sending gifts over a long period of time, it'll make her impatient.
With Valentine's Day nearing, now is the perfect time to be a secret admirer. But remember: you must be completely prepared to tell her by a set date, otherwise there's no point! Plus you'll make her feel frustrated.