What She Thinks Of Your Friends

It's important that your girlfriend likes your friends- but it's also important she doesn't like your friends too much, if you get what I mean. What you want to achieve:

She likes your friends in a friendly way. The signs:

• she regularly hangs around them
• she seems to genuinely enjoy herself in their company
• she talks abut things they have done with you when you're alone
• she doesn't mind having to hang around them
• when she's in their presence and you're not there, it's not all awkward and silence
  
• her friends are friends with your friends

However, these two can be bad, particularly the second:

She hates your friends.

• she loudly expresses her dislike: sighs when you make her hang out with them, complaints, etc
• she wouldn't hang out with your friends unless you convinced her to
• she is normally talkative around you, but is really cold to your friends
• when you're not there, she doesn't attempt to make conversation with your friends
• she hates it when you can't be with her because you're doing something with your mates

She likes your friends... a little too much.

• Yep, she definitely hangs around them all the time
• she laughs harder at their jokes than yours (and not just because you're unfunny)
• she flirts with them (see this post, but apply it to your friends)
• she's spending time with them when you're not around
• she's starting to spend more time when them than you

Your girlfriend's relationship with your friends is vital. Monitor and observe it well.

Things Girls Love In Guys

If you're:

• good humored - guys who are easily amused turn a lot of girls on (don't overdo it if it's not you. If you go out of your way to laugh at things that are not even funny lame, it'd shine right through!)
• You are within reason. Why do we like people who possess dicks? Because it means that they don't experience something called PMS. So if a guy is hot and is cold, he is not something that attracts females who are already these things!
• You are smart and not ignorant. You are aware of your environment, you are aware of the world. You don't need to top all your classes, no no. But you must know what is happening so people can discuss things with you in an intelligent matter.
• You are not petty. Sure, we're all about equality these days but it is one of the oldest known fact to mankind that men should not be pettier than his girlfriend. Remember. Tight ass = good. Tight AS ass = not good! I know the line is too fine, but please find it sooner than later.
• You are not self conceited. You are not the most important thing, and she understands that. It's just more convenient when you understands it as well.
• You do not drone on and on about something completely insignificant.
• You know when it is charming and when to stop before it gets overly sluttily flirtatious.
• You are quite charming! You are not a slut, though and does make her feel like she's just 'one of the chicks he flirts with'.

It's Chicks Before Dicks, Guys!

Often many problems will arise when you start dating a girl- no, not between you guys, you’re both probably too filled with giddiness to be able to point out any problems if there were to be any.

But that isn’t to say there is no friction outside your little bubble of the perfect world.

So, first off: MAKE SURE YOU DON’T SPEND EVER WAKING SECOND WITH HER. Not only will that mean your life is empty without her, girls have a strict ‘Chicks before Dicks’ rule and they’re expected to adhere to it.

She probably has a best friend, or a group of friends she is particularly close to. Make sure she still has the time to spend with other people other than you. Don’t be selfish, trust me in that the last thing you want is for her friends to be against you.

So the point is, don’t pressure her to spend all her time with you- she probably wants to, but she has a life too. Pressuring her will only make things harder for her. So be a gentleman and tell her she doesn’t need to focus all her attention on you (even if you and I both know that you know, you honestly really actually want that.)

But I guess if she’s not a believer in the rule, you can’t do much about it, can you?!