Yes that's right boys, we're sorry to say this, but The Guyde is undergoing an indefinite hiatus.
We're sorry if we've abandoned you at your hour of need, or if you still have much to learn, but as you have probably noticed- our posts are declining in quality and length. Responsibilities, work and life have kept us busy, and with changing responsibilities and various other difficulties in life emerging, we have decided to call it quits with The Guyde.
And no, this is not a permanent decision. The Guyde and all its past posts will remain completely intact, and we may or may not someday return.
However, we're still going to be here to help you guys! If you need advice on anything at all, whether it be your naggy girlfriend, your upcoming anniversary or tips for your first date, just drop us an email at theguydemail@gmail.com
Email us too if you want to be kept aware of updates, and we'll drop you an email once we've made a definite decision to re-open The Guyde.
Friday, April 10, 2009
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Ways to Cheer a Girl Up
Assuming you are not the cause of it...
What to do?
What to do?
- Smile. It the least you can do. Some girls will see you smile and smile too, even if she doesn't do it that you can see. The soul is the best place to smile from!
- Ask her if she's okay.
- Tell her she'd be okay. All people love assurances.
- Let her know you're there, even if she does not want to talk to you about it. You're there nonetheless just in case she does for some crazy strange reason!
- Tell her something that sucks that's happened to you. She'd feel you are able to understand. It doesn't matter if you're not supposed to know she's in a bad position or not (if she's trying to keep a straight face)... just slip it in.
Monday, April 6, 2009
3 Ways To Find Girls
We’ve received a couple of emails from readers expressing their difficulty in finding decent girls to date. Honestly guys, we’re not that hard to find, we’re quite frankly sitting here waiting for your move! So where do you meet girls/ how do you find them?
1. Start by actually looking around you. Often, we go to school/work with all potentially datable people- we just don’t seem to register them as that. Instead, we choose to hold them by the first impressions we give them, and don’t give ourselves a chance to go out and get to know them for who they really are. So look around you. That girl there, have you ever actually made the effort to ask her about herself? What if she too, is looking for someone like you? Go surprise her, surprise yourself.
2. Go out, expose yourself! Each time you go out, think of it as an advertisement for yourself. The more you go out, the more people see your advertisements, the better chance of someone being interested.
3. Act interested. Talk to girls, flirt with them, get their attention. How are your potential dates supposed know you’re interested if they don’t even know of you? Just make sure the attention you receive isn’t negative publicity though- going out and getting yourself wasted isn’t cool.
1. Start by actually looking around you. Often, we go to school/work with all potentially datable people- we just don’t seem to register them as that. Instead, we choose to hold them by the first impressions we give them, and don’t give ourselves a chance to go out and get to know them for who they really are. So look around you. That girl there, have you ever actually made the effort to ask her about herself? What if she too, is looking for someone like you? Go surprise her, surprise yourself.
2. Go out, expose yourself! Each time you go out, think of it as an advertisement for yourself. The more you go out, the more people see your advertisements, the better chance of someone being interested.
3. Act interested. Talk to girls, flirt with them, get their attention. How are your potential dates supposed know you’re interested if they don’t even know of you? Just make sure the attention you receive isn’t negative publicity though- going out and getting yourself wasted isn’t cool.
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